Look, when I ask you to name 3 Nirvana songs, it's not to suggest that you're some sort of poser that has no right to be wearing one of their shirts, it's just that I'm worried that you might be under control of one of those worm alien things from the "Conspiracy" episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation and this is one of the easiest ways to check that you have full access to your memory that I can think of. The fact that you're a female has nothing to do with it.